{"id":2903,"date":"2010-09-29T15:30:10","date_gmt":"2010-09-29T21:30:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tomchak.com\/blog\/2010\/09\/29\/transition-back-into-society\/"},"modified":"2010-09-29T15:30:10","modified_gmt":"2010-09-29T21:30:10","slug":"transition-back-into-society","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tomchak.com\/blog\/2010\/09\/29\/transition-back-into-society\/","title":{"rendered":"Transition Back Into Society"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"clear: both\"><a href=\"https:\/\/tomchak.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/Photo_Sep_29__4_02_12_PM1.jpg\" class=\"image-link\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"linked-to-original\" src=\"https:\/\/tomchak.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/Photo_Sep_29__4_02_12_PM1-thumb.jpg\" height=\"508\" width=\"380\" style=\" text-align: center; display: block; margin: 0 auto 10px;\" \/><\/a>Just like the prisons have a program to reintroduce reformed convicts into society, we have come up with our own version of a transition program for Brenda. <\/p>\n<p style=\"clear: both\">Starting this November Brenda is returning to the work force as a freelance editor. But after 3+ years of not working outside of the house, she was feeling just a bit rusty and apprehensive. Would she spontaneously burst into song in front of the client and sing the <em>Bob the Builder<\/em> theme song? Would she keep saying to the client &#8220;very good&#8221; for even the smallest accomplishment? Or even worse, would she start asking those around her if they went poopy in their pants?<\/p>\n<p style=\"clear: both\">To help ease her transition back into the world of non-child speak, we decided to swap jobs for the month of October (actually, it already started today). She would work at the office at a place she&#8217;s familiar with, with people that she knows &#8211; and I would take over at home being Mr. Mom. That also has the side benefits of giving me more time with the kids that I don&#8217;t normally get, and her a break from the kids for a bit. <\/p>\n<p style=\"clear: both\">So we shall see how the month goes, but it seems like a win-win all around. <\/p>\n<p><br class=\"final-break\" style=\"clear: both\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Just like the prisons have a program to reintroduce reformed convicts into society, we have come up with our own version of a transition program for Brenda. Starting this November Brenda is returning to the work force as a freelance editor. But after 3+ years of not working outside of the house, she was feeling [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":86,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3,4],"tags":[10,14],"class_list":["post-2903","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-photo","category-text","tag-brenda","tag-tom"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p47XZT-KP","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":153,"url":"https:\/\/tomchak.com\/blog\/2007\/06\/28\/brenda-at-11-weeks\/","url_meta":{"origin":2903,"position":0},"title":"Brenda at 11 Weeks","author":"Thomas Tomchak","date":"June 28, 2007","format":false,"excerpt":"Brenda is now at 11 weeks with the twins! 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