{"id":2918,"date":"2010-10-05T13:10:27","date_gmt":"2010-10-05T19:10:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tomchak.com\/blog\/2010\/10\/05\/what-love-is\/"},"modified":"2010-10-05T13:10:27","modified_gmt":"2010-10-05T19:10:27","slug":"what-love-is","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tomchak.com\/blog\/2010\/10\/05\/what-love-is\/","title":{"rendered":"What Love Is&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"clear: both\"><a href=\"https:\/\/tomchak.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/father_daughter_shadow-full.jpg\" class=\"image-link\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"linked-to-original\" src=\"https:\/\/tomchak.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/10\/father_daughter_shadow-thumb1.jpg\" height=\"600\" width=\"600\" style=\" text-align: center; display: block; margin: 0 auto 10px;\" \/><\/a>This is a great quote to ponder&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"clear: both\">\n<p style=\"clear: both\">&#8220;Love isn&#8217;t just about feeling good. It&#8217;s about doing what you don&#8217;t want to do over and over again, if it needs to be done, for the sake of someone else. Love is really about self sacrifice.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"clear: both\"> &#8211; Meg Meeker, M.D., from the book <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Strong-Fathers-Daughters-Secrets-Father\/dp\/0345499395\/jusanoday08-20\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters&#8221;.<\/a> <\/p>\n<p><br class=\"final-break\" style=\"clear: both\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is a great quote to ponder&#8230; &#8220;Love isn&#8217;t just about feeling good. It&#8217;s about doing what you don&#8217;t want to do over and over again, if it needs to be done, for the sake of someone else. Love is really about self sacrifice.&#8221; &#8211; Meg Meeker, M.D., from the book &#8220;Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters&#8221;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":86,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2918","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-text"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p47XZT-L4","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":2906,"url":"https:\/\/tomchak.com\/blog\/2010\/09\/30\/new-book-strong-fathers-strong-daughters-10-secrets-every-father-should-know\/","url_meta":{"origin":2918,"position":0},"title":"New Book: Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters: 10 Secrets Every Father Should Know","author":"Thomas Tomchak","date":"September 30, 2010","format":false,"excerpt":"This book was recommended to me by my good friend Craig who has a daughter that's around 4 years old. 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